Can I help you? Man I get asked this all the time when trying to get out of my truck! I am pleased that they want to help but it usually takes me twice the amount of time to get in or out when they help! :-) When in a wheelchair for some time you get techniques and routines that you do in a systematic way. When someone disrupts the flow of things it messes up the whole system. So I try to say no before they get close enough to try and help anyway. If by chance I do fall out of my chair, after I gain my composure, hide my embarrasement, and check for injuries, at times I do appreciate help! When helping someone in or out of their chair remember they know their body best and probably know how they would like you to lift them. We all need a helping hand from time to time so I'm not offended by the simple gesture of assistance, just make sure you listen to the response and respect their wishes if they decline your offer! It might save your time and theirs!
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